Lord give me patience!
Ok my weekend started off great (at first)! Went to Lisa's about 7 or so and talked a while and started making our grilled chicken salad! Which by the way was AWESOME! She bought some wine and, LOL, I've only had wine once and so I don't know how to really drink it. I took a big GULP! hahaha Oh no no no! So I started sipping on it and it just didn't do well with me! Andrea shared some of her peach wine stuff and it was good but Im just not a peach person. So Lisa's MAN bought me a six pack of Barcardi O3. NOW THAT DID IT! I was feelin' pretty good when I left! Had to leave about 10:30 because Alex was flippin out and headed to my house with the baby. SO I left after his 20th call and he told me he was waiting at my house with the baby! ARRRG! So I left because I just can't have my baby waiting in a car in my back yard! So I got there and fell asleep! Thanks Lisa, it was short but I had a great time! It was nice to get out and be with friends for a little while!
Now Saturday! MY actual Birthday! I locked myself out of the house and of course my house keys are on my cars keys! So I was out in the heat and finally called Alex to get me! So I didn't work like I had planned to!
Sunday! I go to pick up my kids... NOW HERE IT GOES:
Me and Alex's sister get to his house about 30 mins early so that we can take pics of the house. Fidel has everyone believing that he lives in the front house when he actually lives in the back house next to an alley and no gate to close it off. They found out me and his sister were taking pics of the house and he recorded my son crying that he didn't want to go with me. But what they recorded was Fidel bringing my son half-way down the walkway and letting him run back in then he tells me "Call the cops". Then I yelled back at him "Why do we always have to involve the cops just bring my son out to me?" and he just kept saying "Call the cops" So I called and they told me that I have to have my papers with me so I run back home and on my way back to his house he calls me telling me "I'll take mijo to school and you can pick him up from there" and I said " I'm on my way back to get him" him-"oh you are still going to try" me- "yea this is my time with my son" him- "Just make sure you call the cops" *end call* He calls back not even 5 mins later "I'm leaving you'll just have to get him tomorrow" me- "Um no your family can bring him out to me" him- "I'm leaving now and he's going with me" me- "where are you taking him" him- "I'm not going to tell you" me- "you have to tell me, you can't take my son somewhere on my time and not tell me" him- "I don't have to tell you anything BYE" me- "Fidel don't hang up" him- "What" me- "where are you taking my son" him - " BYE" *end call* while I was arguing with him Alex's sister is calling the cops on her phone. So we are about to turn on his street and he is racing passed us so we start to chase him and I call the cops and they told me that I have to be at the pick up location in order to have a report made so we go back to his house (we had already lost him at the second light). We wait and wait while his family is on the phone laughing and pointing at us. The cops came and I get out and show them my papers and his brother and mother start walking towards us and the cops tell them to stay away! HA! So I explained that my son does fight with me a little but I need him with me on my time and I look down his drive way!! MY EX IS THERE AT THE HOUSE!!!! He drove through the alley and went through the back so he was there the whole time!!! And I told them I didn't know he was there. So they took down some info and went to his house and they searched his brother and his brother started saying something and they asked "Are you the father" and he said no and they told him they wanted to talk to him. SO Fidel comes out and the only thing I heard was the cops telling him "He is not 18 and has no choice, per court orders your son has to come with her!" then his brother started saying "so he has to go even if...." cops- "you're not the parent so you don't say anything" .... So my son came out and started to run back in and I grabbed him and picked him up and I said "Look at mommy, what don't you want to come with mommy?" He calmed down and just said "I want to stay with papi" and I walked to the car just talking to him and he sat in his seat and we left! The whole time his brother was recording us RECORD THAT!! Drama!!! Now why put my son through all of that! He should have just brought him out to me where I can get him and let us leave instead of all that! Its not healthy for my kids to call the cops everytime I go to pick them up! But instead of listening to me the guy that I was paying $150 an hour for and the Social worker think I am too immature to take care of my kids because I had another baby. Ok, get over it! They are saying I drove my ex crazy because I started "dating" Alex and that set him off. Ummm no he was crazy before I started dating Alex. Actually that's the whole reason why I left him.
Well all I can do it leave it to God and have him handle it.
Now Saturday! MY actual Birthday! I locked myself out of the house and of course my house keys are on my cars keys! So I was out in the heat and finally called Alex to get me! So I didn't work like I had planned to!
Sunday! I go to pick up my kids... NOW HERE IT GOES:
Me and Alex's sister get to his house about 30 mins early so that we can take pics of the house. Fidel has everyone believing that he lives in the front house when he actually lives in the back house next to an alley and no gate to close it off. They found out me and his sister were taking pics of the house and he recorded my son crying that he didn't want to go with me. But what they recorded was Fidel bringing my son half-way down the walkway and letting him run back in then he tells me "Call the cops". Then I yelled back at him "Why do we always have to involve the cops just bring my son out to me?" and he just kept saying "Call the cops" So I called and they told me that I have to have my papers with me so I run back home and on my way back to his house he calls me telling me "I'll take mijo to school and you can pick him up from there" and I said " I'm on my way back to get him" him-"oh you are still going to try" me- "yea this is my time with my son" him- "Just make sure you call the cops" *end call* He calls back not even 5 mins later "I'm leaving you'll just have to get him tomorrow" me- "Um no your family can bring him out to me" him- "I'm leaving now and he's going with me" me- "where are you taking him" him- "I'm not going to tell you" me- "you have to tell me, you can't take my son somewhere on my time and not tell me" him- "I don't have to tell you anything BYE" me- "Fidel don't hang up" him- "What" me- "where are you taking my son" him - " BYE" *end call* while I was arguing with him Alex's sister is calling the cops on her phone. So we are about to turn on his street and he is racing passed us so we start to chase him and I call the cops and they told me that I have to be at the pick up location in order to have a report made so we go back to his house (we had already lost him at the second light). We wait and wait while his family is on the phone laughing and pointing at us. The cops came and I get out and show them my papers and his brother and mother start walking towards us and the cops tell them to stay away! HA! So I explained that my son does fight with me a little but I need him with me on my time and I look down his drive way!! MY EX IS THERE AT THE HOUSE!!!! He drove through the alley and went through the back so he was there the whole time!!! And I told them I didn't know he was there. So they took down some info and went to his house and they searched his brother and his brother started saying something and they asked "Are you the father" and he said no and they told him they wanted to talk to him. SO Fidel comes out and the only thing I heard was the cops telling him "He is not 18 and has no choice, per court orders your son has to come with her!" then his brother started saying "so he has to go even if...." cops- "you're not the parent so you don't say anything" .... So my son came out and started to run back in and I grabbed him and picked him up and I said "Look at mommy, what don't you want to come with mommy?" He calmed down and just said "I want to stay with papi" and I walked to the car just talking to him and he sat in his seat and we left! The whole time his brother was recording us RECORD THAT!! Drama!!! Now why put my son through all of that! He should have just brought him out to me where I can get him and let us leave instead of all that! Its not healthy for my kids to call the cops everytime I go to pick them up! But instead of listening to me the guy that I was paying $150 an hour for and the Social worker think I am too immature to take care of my kids because I had another baby. Ok, get over it! They are saying I drove my ex crazy because I started "dating" Alex and that set him off. Ummm no he was crazy before I started dating Alex. Actually that's the whole reason why I left him.
Well all I can do it leave it to God and have him handle it.
posted by Crystal @ 9:59 AM
5 Comments:
At 5:29 PM,
123 said…
Thanks! He (Ryan) could really use your prayers. I see the picture on your site, which one is you? Thanks for the comments! Dana
At 8:10 PM,
Anonymous said…
Wish I was there to drink with you. Right about now, I need it!!
At 8:41 PM,
Stace said…
Fidel is a JACKASS, and I'm completely with you and why does he have to put your children through that. I have faith in you and you are a strong woman I know you will come out on top of things. :)
At 8:03 PM,
123 said…
Wow, that is awesome! I love your heart. I can see it through your comments. You have humility. Keep your eyes on God. He will continue to guide you to HIS will! I will pray for God to give you wisdom and His vision of what He created you to do! Take care and God Bless you! Dana
At 9:08 AM,
Unknown said…
He's a child, and trust honey, one day he'll learn. It'll probably really have to hit him, and hurt him like a ton of bricks, but it WILL come to him. You put your promises in God's hands. He'll handle up.
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